In this world of uncertainty, it's hard to find a partner of your choice. Nowadays, people have become more skeptical; they aren't go-getters any more. Even if they like someone, they would wait for ages to ask him/her out; probably, by that time, someone else takes the lead. Indeed, asking a girl out is tough for most guys; most spend days thinking ... waiting for the perfect moment. Trust me, it's not rocket science. Maybe she feels the same about you. So, stop wasting time, take control, and ask her out. As for how to do that, here are some ways to help you out.
1. Write down your name and number on a piece of paper. Place this in a balloon and inflate it. Don't forget to tie a small red ribbon to the piece of paper. Tie a string to the balloon and hang it outside her apartment. If you don't know where the girl lives, or if she lives with her family, send it to her through someone. Wait for her call. If it doesn't come, move to step two.
2. The right kind of gift has never failed to impress anyone. Take time and find out her likes and dislikes. Buy her a small gift and along with a note, place it outside her doorstep. If you already know the girl, you can write about your feelings in detail. If not, just a sentence on what you feel for her, along with your contact details should suffice. Again, wait for a few days for her to get back. If it doesn't work, move to step three.
3. Leave a crossword puzzle in her locker if you're in school or college. If not, leave it somewhere she'll definitely come across it; a place where she'll be surprised to find a gift. Basically, you need to place the puzzle in a gift-wrapped box. Make sure the puzzle says, "Will you go out with me?", and your contact details on the other side. She'll be curious to know what this thing is all about and will try to solve the puzzle nevertheless. Wait for her to get in touch with you. If she doesn't, move to step four.
4. If you know the girl pretty well, it's not a bad idea to be a little direct. This holds true specially if you think she has similar feelings for you. Send her flowers with a small card placed in it, reading 'Coffee?'. You can also send her a nice chocolate, instead of the flowers. Here, you don't need to add your number or anything. Just wait and see how she reacts to the offer. If she doesn't want to go out with you even now, there is nothing much you can do.
It is always a good idea to spend some time with the girl before actually asking her out. Get to know her through mutual friends; hang out with these friends initially. See what you feel for her after a couple of days. Be yourself when you talk to her; don't be someone you're not just so you can impress her. Good Luck!