Are you looking for a great idea for a date? And are not sure about the place, what to do and what to say to her? Well, in that case, you will be relieved to know that you are not the only man who has his tongue twisted on what to do on a date.
Most men find it hard to get a date in this busy world, and then to arrange it so as to have a great time, is a task in itself. Creating a good impression will help you get the second chance with her. Here are a few tips.
You don't have to wear a tux, but it is important that your clothes are clean and odor free. Shave, have a haircut (if needed) and shower please. Remember no belching (or anything that will embarrass you), and no 'the food was good' is not an excuse for it. And yes, don't forget the perfume. Women are attracted to men who smell good!
While going for a date, you should take a present for her. Girls love gifts more than anything. And if it's a surprise, your score by the end of the date will increase by few extra points! Flowers, chocolates, soft toys, some goodies, etc., are a few good gifting options if the date is the first one.
In case you know her well, then you can gift her favorite perfume, book, etc. All this will make your date like you even more. Also, arranging for some good romantic music will add to the cause.
Give her the chance to share her views as well. Also remember that she might be judging you, and good conversational skills is definitely an advantage.
It might sound lame, but it will only work in your favor, if you come across as someone who has a great sense of humor. It is not a good idea to crack a joke on some of her habits, it will only annoy her. Clean humor is always welcome and women surely like men who make them laugh.
In case you are not impressed with the dress, you can compliment her for the effort. After all, she has made all efforts for you! But do not overdo it. It may appear fake!
Your love for your date will be clearly seen in your eyes. So, let her read them. Even if you are unable to express your feelings during the date, your eyes will do the talking. Sometimes, silence is indeed golden. It will give a chance to both of you to feel your love for each other without the need of expressing them.
Yes yes you may have heard this a dozen times, but it still doesn't hurt to hear it again does it. Listen to what the woman is saying and make sure you come across as someone who is a great listener. Imagine how put off she will be if she asks you your opinion and you have no idea what she was talking about.
Don't start complaining about you being reserved and nervous. It's just not going to cut it if both of you are going to be reserved and no one does the talking. Be friendly, make her comfortable and watch her growing closer to you (in some cases literally).
The other important point to keep in mind is never end your date abruptly. Even if you are done with the dinner and everything that is planned, keep something for those last moments.
Girls don't like plain good-byes. You could create the best last impression by saying something really special. Or you could just compliment her one more time. By doing so maybe, you could end up receiving some compliments for yourself too or may be a kiss as well!
Moves to Avoid
- Commenting on the attire.
- Ordering food without consulting her.
- Talking about your ex.
- Asking your date to share the bill.
- Ask her to get herself home.
- Eying the beautiful lady sitting on the adjacent table. (No matter how beautiful she is!).
- Eating too much onion or garlic.
The Perfect Date
As mentioned earlier, good backgrounds always work in your favor. Perfect places will give you the much-needed privacy. Here are a few ideas that are less clichéd.
The best part is, not all plays are houseful, so your privacy is maintained. You can have a dance with her when the music is played. The date can end with a dinner. By the end of it, you will have nothing but good memories.
Keep the entire setting simple. Light music in the background will add to the romance. The best part of the dinner will be that there will be no distractions. It will be just the two of you!