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How to Ask a Girl to be Your Girlfriend

Mukta Gaikwad Nov 20, 2018
Asking a girl out is probably your worst nightmare and the most daunting task that you can ever imagine to be. But not anymore! All you need is some confidence and faith in your feeling for her, and a faint idea that she maybe interested in you as well.
This question does have an answer, however, the courage required, is, to each his own. Oftentimes, men find the object of their desire, fearsome.
What you need to understand is, the girl you like is not your real fear. Your real fear is fear of rejection, fear of losing, and fear of commitment. All this things put together, suppress your desires. However, is life really lived, if you haven't tried to get what you covet? So, don't just give up yet. Here's some advice that you can use.

Take a Decision

You have known her since time immemorial. You confide in her, and you shared some of the best moments together. You look out for her every time you are together, check on her, go out of your ways to do things for her, and try to grab her attention.
Well, these are sure sings that you are in love and you need to make a move. To make the next move, you need to take a firm decision. Get it straight, that you want to make her yours, and share every moment together. Dating her is the next thing on your mind.

Subtle Hints

Before you drop the bomb, you need to give her some subtle hints. Popping the question, in a random way, can shock or upset her.
Flirting, for example, is a subtle hint. Put all the flirting tips and tricks that you've ever known to good use now. There are millions of flirting lines for men that can help you a great deal to do your groundwork. If she responds to your flirting, then she too is romantically inclined towards you.

The Question

Be original in whatever that you are going to do, while asking a girl out. Women are thorough romantic. So, try to make this moment as romantic, secluded, and private as possible.
Women love creativity and romance more than just an opulent show around it. Find the right moment, get close enough, and without wasting a single second, just ask her to be your girlfriend.
Asking a girl out with confidence, shows how stable you are in your thoughts and action. Make an eye contact and maintain it. Hold her hand firmly in yours, move an inch closer to her and ask the question with a shadow of a doubt. And she sure won't say no for an answer!