Losing the girl you like can be heart-wrenching. But don't lose hope. By following some simple steps, you can get closer to her again. You'll have to let go of your inhibitions, and make sincere efforts to win her heart all over again. Here's some help on how you can do that.
Understand What Exactly Went Wrong
Ask yourself what exactly went wrong in your previous relationship. Till you understand your mistakes, you will not be able to take your relationship to the next level. Try to recollect situations where you reacted in a wrong way and now think what would have been the right way of handling them. Also, make a promise that you will never repeat the same mistakes again.
Communicate With Her
Lack of communication will never help you to get back the girl you still love. So, call her up, IM her or send an e-mail and try to meet. If you think that you will get confused when you meet her, then decide the things that you want to say beforehand. Be patient and give her a chance to speak her mind. Honest, heart-felt and sincere interaction can compel her to think about re-kindling your relationship.
Accept Your Mistakes
An important suggestion: accept your mistakes and promise to improve on them. Most guys can have an ego problem, and find it too hard to apologize to women. If you are one of them, then you need to change your attitude. When you accept your mistakes, she will know that you are taking the relationship seriously and are trying your best to make it work.
Give Up Bad Habits
If you think that some of your habits were the cause of your breakup, then you should give them up. For example, if your girl does not approve of smoking, drinking or any other things, give up these habits to make her feel happy. Try to compromise on something to get your love life back on track. Remember that this change in you should remain throughout your life and not just for a few days.
Be a Successful Man
Success it is said, is what most women look for in a man. A woman might compromise on looks, style or any other thing, but she would definitely like her man to be successful in his profession. Now, success cannot be achieved in a fortnight, you need hard work for that. The key is to start working on it. Your girlfriend will definitely realize and appreciate your efforts.
These were just a few suggestions on the course of action you can take towards making your girl like you again. Exercise caution; if she has made it very clear that she wants nothing to do with you, do not harangue her. She will only get upset and things will get worse.