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How to Get the Girl You Love

Ratnashri Dutta Mar 12, 2019
How to get the girl you love... hmmm! That's a million dollar question that guys would simply love to know. Read here and get the girl of your dreams.
When I look into your eyes
I can see how much I love you
And it makes me realize
When I look into your arms
I see all my dreams come true
When I look into your eyes.

This song by Bon Jovi best describes what a guy feels when he looks into the eyes of the girl he likes a lot.
To him, that particular girl means the world and he is ready to do anything for her. He cares for her, he loves her and he wants her. But, unfortunately, the girl is unaware of his feelings for her and does not reciprocate her feelings in the same manner as he does.
The guy is too shy to express what he feels for her and also, most importantly how to get her attention without embarrassing himself. Instead of just wondering how to get the girl you love, just read on for some dating tips for men and this is sure to help you get the girl of your dreams.

Ways to Get Her to Love You

What matters to girls most is the nature of the guy and also the impression that the guy creates upon them. A boy who is a big show off and boasts a lot about his material wealth, you will always see him surrounded by really pretty girls. But look deep and you will realize that there is nothing called true love which you are looking for.

Be Yourself

Just act normally and do not put up any pretense. Show what you actually are and do not change yourself just to get her attention (except changing for the better). Remember the song by Akon and Keri Hilson, "...so don't try to change me, why would you change me...".

Smile and Be Happy

Be happy, make her smile, give out a positive attitude and only then will the girl get attracted towards you. Nobody loves to be in the company of a grumpy person.

First Impression

'First impression is the last impression'. Make sure that you are dressed properly and by properly does not mean that you have to wear all branded stuff in order to impress the girl. Dress neatly, even if you are wearing a simple jeans and T-shirt, wear it neatly.
Maintain personal hygiene, use a good deodorant, get rid of bad breath, shave daily, wear proper shoes, etc. Most of the girls, when they see a guy for the first time, notice their shoes, so make sure that you give great attention to them. Your first impression should be good. Therefore, you should know what attracts women.

Listen, Listen and Listen

One fact about girls is that they love to be with guys who listens. This is one major tip that you should keep in mind. Girls love to talk to a guy who will listen instead of just given their opinions when not even asked for.
Listen to them and that will lead them to trust you and also like you. Also from your conversations, you will also get to know the answer of your question, how to know if a girl likes you.

Friend First

When you first see a girl and really like her, do not at once try to get into a relationship with her. Be friends first, because that is what girls love; a friend who will always be there when you need them. Once you get that into her head, there is no looking back.
However, it's not necessary that all friendships will turn into a relationship later on. Do not force the girl to be more than friends if you see that she is not reciprocating her feelings in the same manner as you are. Sometimes, being just very good friends is more important than being girlfriends and boyfriends. Be a shoulder she can lean on when in need.

Get to Know More About Her

Show interest in her life, get to know more about her, her interests, her dreams, her goals, her hobbies, etc. The more you show interest in her life, the more she starts liking you. Another great tip on how to get a girl to like you.

Be Confident and Honest

Being confident about yourself and being honest to the girl, takes you a long way. Be confident about what you do and what you say. Do not lie to the girl you like. That's another important tip for how to make a girl fall in love with you.
Keep these tips in mind. But remember one thing, if the girl does not react in the same manner, then do not get disheartened. There might be someone else who loves you the same way.