Sure, flowers and candy may be a quick fix solution if you missed a kid's dentist's appointment or had an argument about something, but there are some things that you need to do on a regular basis to make your wife happy. They're common things and you're probably well aware of them already.
Nevertheless, have a read and put the ones mentioned here to practice. Your wife will see the man she loves and be happier than ever. After all, in her happiness lies yours, doesn't it?
We've been hearing this ever since we had the sense to understand what it meant, and yet somehow, it does not sink into our brains. Worse, it does not sink into our hearts. Whether it is a relationship between an unmarried couple or a marital one, as much as we may try to avoid it, we do tend to take each other for granted, consciously or unconsciously.
So, take a long, hard look at your wife, and think about all the things that she does for you and your family. Think about how many times you have simply expected her to do something and then been terribly upset about it not having been done. If you can think of even more than one occasion when this has happened, you know exactly what you need to do.
It becomes very easy for us to slowly shift our focus from the other person in the relationship and channel all our energies on ourselves. While it is necessary to think about oneself, it should not get to an extent where no one else or nothing else matters. Especially if it's your wife.
Remember, her life as an individual is as important as yours. And it's this individuality that makes a relationship work even better. So, ensure that she is as much her own self as she is your wife. Overlook the minor imperfections and you'll be able to magnify the numerous perfections that she possesses.
As the man of the house, as a husband and as a father you have responsibilities, not only to yourself, but also to the family that you so lovingly created. While we may all say that love is all we need, we know that love doesn't pay the bills, neither does only love get your kids an education and make them stand on their own feet.
Be as good a father as you are a husband. Make sure you fulfill all your responsibilities towards the house, your wife and your kids. It may be as simple as picking up the kids from school to putting enough money aside for their college education and paying the bills on time to planning your finances well.
All these gestures will not only make her happy, it will show her how much you love her. The family bond will only get stronger and that's something that no one is going to complain about, isn't it?
Some say that the romance fizzes out after marriage and that you don't have the emotional and physical stamina to maintain the same spark that you'll had when you were courting. Others say things change, people change and situations change, which in turn leads to the changes in the relationship.
But why should that affect you and your wife? You're still the person she married, and she the one you married. The only way a relationship should change after marriage is to become a mature one, with a deep rooted understanding of one another, which comes only with constant practice.
And for this constant practice, you need to be willing to go that extra mile to make her feel like much more than just your wife and the mother of your kids. She needs to feel like the woman you love!
So spoil her, pamper her, send her flowers in the middle of nothing, take her out for romantic outings, make sweet love to her, show her how much you want her, and how much you care. There's nothing more a woman loves than seeing that her husband wants her after years of marriage just as much as he wanted her when they weren't. So show her exactly that!
Well, these were some ways to make your wife happy. Every woman is a different entity and has a different set of expectations from her husband. All you have to do is know what they are and fulfill them, thus maintaining the harmonious blend of your two souls meant to be intertwined forever.