Sometimes you may suspect that your girlfriend is not loyal to you. If you have a doubt that she may be a cheater, it’s time to stop evading the truth. After all, it may just be a misconception at your end ,or really an authentication of your misgivings. But how will you come to know that your girlfriend is really cheating on you? There are certain signs of a cheating girlfriend, which reveal her unfaithfulness.
Nothing can be more heart–wrenching than to live with the uncertainty that your girlfriend may be cheating on you. Most men live in denial because they don’t want to deal with the possibility of confronting an ugly reality that can easily shatter their faith in love and relationships. Infidelity is a major deal-breaker even in not-so-serious relationships. Cheating has increased a lot in recent decades, especially among Western cultures. But how will you come to know that your girlfriend is cheating on you? This article talks about the signs of a cheating girlfriend to help you find out the truth.
25 Signs Your Girlfriend is Cheating on You
When you suspect that your girlfriend is cheating on you, then it may be difficult for you to deal with the situation. But don’t panic right now. One of the number one signs of a cheating girlfriend are that you are no longer her priority. Another major red flag is that she is no longer affected by your actions that earlier irritated her. Have a sinking feeling? Hold your horses and don’t get ahead of yourself. Take a look at some other tell-tale signs that will give away whether she has been a philanderer.
~You have a strong gut feeling that she is cheating on you.
~She avoids answering the phone when you are around but incessantly texts. Else, she may go to another room to attend the call on the pretext of ‘privacy’. Does she even delete her call and message history?
~She has been beaming with happiness but you don’t know the reason behind it.
~She suddenly starts hanging out with a mysterious “certain girlfriend” a lot, but you have never met her.
~She starts dropping in names of new friends and insists that you two keep your friends separate.
~Her number is busy a lot these days, especially at odd hours.
~She primps more often and now spends extensive amount of time and money on her appearance. It is just like how she paid extra attention to herself when you initially started dating.
~The frequency of her calls and messages drops significantly.
~She starts dropping in names of new friends and insists that you two keep your friends separate.
~Her number is busy a lot these days, especially at odd hours.
~She primps more often and now spends extensive amount of time and money on her appearance. It is just like how she paid extra attention to herself when you initially started dating.
~The frequency of her calls and messages drops significantly.
~You may notice that some of your mutual friends start acting strangely when you two are together.
~She doesn’t find you appealing anymore and often makes insulting remarks about your job, physical appearance or attitude. She starts criticizing you and gets angry at the things that never used to bother her before. She may be trying to emphasize your faults in order to justify her faithlessness to herself.
~She doesn’t show much interest in getting physically or emotionally intimate with you. She will even flinch from any public display of affection and make excuses for it.
~All of a sudden, she has become over-protective of her gadgets and has even changed all her passwords that you may have known.
~You almost caught her lying about her whereabouts but she quickly covered it after the brief slip up.
~Your girlfriend now encourages you to spend more time with your friends or to go alone on a trip or to a movie. She may start a new hobby or may talk about the movies that you had never seen together.
~She gets confused with the information she shared with you because she is already doing that with a third person that may or may not be her new lover.
~She has become secretive about her whereabouts and gets mad if you become concerned and ask her to give details. She may even try to change the subject to divert your interest. The thing is that she fights with the same objective.
~Her interest in the activities, that you enjoyed together previously, has dwindled. You might notice a series of unexplained cancellations of plans.
~She smells different. It may have been that another guy’s scent rubbed off on her or she was in a very different environment (around smokers, smells heavily of traditional food or anything to raise your suspicions).
~If you suddenly notice unexplained expensive additions to her wardrobe that she wouldn’t be able to afford otherwise. The other guy may be showering your girlfriend with extravagant gifts to win her affections.
~She has become paranoid and accuses you of cheating on her.
~She starts picking up fights with you or tries to look for reasons to break up OR she becomes extra nice (perhaps, out of guilt). In either case, she will suddenly adopt an extreme attitude.
~You previously cheated on her and she found out. She may not have been over it yet and finds it difficult to trust you which makes her even more vulnerable to fall in to the arms of another guy. Call it revenge or a broken heart.
Give a Thought
Many women will often mention a particular man a lot in their conversation, saying things like “He is so funny/smart/intelligent…” or “The other day, me and him were…”. This could be a signs of an emotional affair and you can still take control and put an end to it. However, if she stops dropping in the name altogether or only mentions being with her girlfriend(s) an awful lot, the cheating may have become a full-fledged relationship with another man. Here, I have mentioned the signs of a cheating girlfriend, BUT, it is not necessary that ALL of them indicate she may be cheating on you. It could be any other reason; for example – she is not cheating but that is how she generally is, she just needs more space, she wants to give you space, she wants to concentrate on her career, she is no longer excited by your relationship but is not cheating on you, she is trying to bring back the spark in the relationship, you have other relationship problems (not infidelity), there is too much work pressure or she is under stress due to some other cause.
Friends often know about if someone in the circle is having an affair outside the relationship. It is a sticky situation wherein they must stay loyal to their friendship as well be morally right. This leaves them feeling uncomfortable in such situations. Has your mate explicitly told you that he/she saw your girlfriend getting cozy with another man? Do not trust their word immediately because there may or may not be an ulterior motive behind it. Instead of making excuses or wasting your brain cells and mentally torturing yourself, just go and find a valid proof that validates your doubts. Snooping around on your partner is not advisable at all unless you really think she is a cheating girlfriend. A tip to help you catch a cheater is to check her credit card billing history. It will give away details of what has she been doing behind your back like – frequent trips to the restaurant, movie theaters, renting a hotel room or a vacation that was not in your knowledge. Once you are absolutely certain whether she IS or IS NOT innocent, make an independent decision on the fate of your relationship (even if you wish to give her a second chance) and then don’t look back.
