If you are like most men, you are at least somewhat nervous when meeting new women. After all, women are the sexual gatekeepers and you only have one opportunity to make an impactful first impression. However, if you appear nervous or unconfident, you will sabotage your chances of winning favor with the women you desire. Let’s take a quick look at a few ways to be genuinely confident in the presence of women.
You can work out all you want yet you will not look your best unless you dress for success. Pick out some visually striking threads and you will feel as though you have maximized your potential in terms of physical appearance. This confidence boost will help you feel like a truly powerful alpha male. The moral of this story is your wardrobe sends a strong message about who you are and what you are all about. However, there is no need to shell out thousands of dollars for fancy threads. All you have to do is carefully select clothing that looks good on your unique body type and you will notice women treat you that much better.
Impeccable Personal Grooming and Hygiene
Women pay attention to all the small stuff that guys often overlook. Everything from the symmetry of your hair/face to the cleanliness of your fingernails and the stubble around your chin matter a great deal. Invest the time necessary for truly flawless personal grooming and you will be perceived in a much better light. Though you probably do not care much about being clean-shaven and having short fingernails, women really do.
It will merely take 20 minutes each day to tidy up your personal appearance to make the best possible impression. More importantly, this detailed preparation will give you the confidence necessary to “shoot your shot” with women. As is often said, those who look good tend to feel good and ultimately reap the rewards.
Mind Your Body Language
Your nonverbal language is of the utmost importance. Women are masters at reading the subtle cues of body language. This means you can talk a good game and still appear unconfident in the eyes of the woman you are trying to woo simply because your body language reveals your insecurity.
Think back to the last time you accomplished something you set your sights on or the last time you wrapped up a workout. Your head was likely held high, your chest was puffed outward and you stood tall. This is exactly how you should present yourself in the company of women. Mind your body language and you will also enjoy a positive improvement in mindset.
In particular, focus on holding eye contact with women you covet. Speak slowly as you maintain eye contact and you really will appear that much more confident. Just as important is the fact that this physical expression of confidence will bolster your mindset, giving you the positivity necessary to truly believe in yourself and feel genuinely deserving of the woman you desire.
Master the art of Conversation
Though looks certainly matter in attracting women, physical appearance is merely a launching pad for a potential relationship or even a one-night stand. If you struggle to hold a conversation with a woman, you will have little-to-no chance to win her over. Abide by the mantra of “practice makes perfect” to bolster your conversation skills. Strike up verbal (as opposed to texting or web-based) conversations with strangers, practice enunciating your words, speaking at a normal pace and maintaining eye contact throughout the conversation. Keep in mind the manner in which you speak is just as important as the nuanced words coming out of your mouth. Master the art of conversation and you will have the confidence necessary to start up a conversation with any woman, regardless of how attractive she is.