It is no secret women are tough on guys. This imbalance is worsening with each passing day thanks to the rise of social media. Seemingly average-looking women are now inundated with digital correspondence, likes and other attention from countless men. This means you might not be the only guy sharing time with your girl. The challenge lies in piecing together the puzzle to determine if you are your woman’s starting pitcher or merely a relief arm in her bullpen. Let’s take a look at the best ways to determine your real status with your significant other.
You Spot her Hiding her Phone
Watch your woman closely when she uses her phone. Does she go to great lengths to hide it from your view after after use? If your wife or girlfriend is doing something on her phone that she should not be doing (i.e. cheating), she is likely to feel guilty about it to the point that she puts the phone in another room, far away from your view and access. Some cheaters will even use their phone in another room in an attempt to prevent their man from catching them in the act.
She’s Rarely, if Ever, in the Mood
As a man, you are likely the initiator of intimacy. If your woman rebuffs your attempts to have sex, it is time to consider whether you have been relegated to the bullpen. A woman who is cheating on her man or upset with the relationship will come up with every excuse in the book to avoid the emotional connection of sex with a flame that has been extinguished. The bottom line is women in a truly loving relationship will provide their man with sex at least once every couple months at a bare minimum.
If your relationship is in a sex drought, float the idea of a romantic weekend getaway on your dime. Your significant other’s response to this idea will help you figure out if you are her starting pitcher, a bullpen reliever or completely out of the game.
She is not Forthcoming With the Details
A truly reciprocal relationship characterized by love involves ongoing communication. Take a moment to consider how forthright your significant other is when you ask questions about her life. If she does not provide much detail about where she has been going or what she has been doing after work or on weekends, it is a sign you have been demoted to the bullpen.
She had a Major Makeover or Significant Weight Loss
Women who are genuinely happy with their relationship do not go to the extreme of paying big bucks for an extensive makeover. Furthermore, women who love their man rarely lose a considerable amount of weight mid-relationship. Truly happy women typically maintain their weight or possibly even gain a few pounds. If your significant other looks strikingly different mid-relationship, it is a clear sign she is attempting to play the field while keeping you in her back pocket just in case her attempts to form a new relationship are rebuffed.