Are you at a point in your life where you require a little bit of help finding things to talk about with a girl? Most guys are shy when it comes to talking to girls. It’s very common and can be a big hindrance in striking up a casual conversation with someone. But in order to make an impression and strike up a bond between two people, there need to be exchange of words that can keep the "intrigue" element alive.
It’s quite normal to be stuck during a thought and not know what to say next. Or perhaps, in your situation, you aren’t really used to conversing with girls; although now, you are required to. What will you do next? I can tell you that. You need to read the rest of this article if you are searching for conversation starters with a girl you like. Let’s get right to them.
Topics a Girlfriend Will Like to Talk About
After spending a lot of time with your girlfriend and discussing deep subjects, sometimes it can be that you don’t know what to say. It’s normal to feel so and there’s nothing to be ashamed of. All you need is some conversation starter questions to nudge you in the right direction. There is no topic or subject not worth mentioning and there are literally endless possibilities once you begin. Here are a list of questions or conversation starters you can talk about with your girlfriend.
♀♂ Did you ever have a nickname you didn’t like or was embarrassing to say in front of people?
♀♂ What’s the best and worst advice you have given to someone?
♀♂ Is there something you’d like to do the most? Any wild thing that no one can blame or point a finger at you afterward?
♀♂ To you, what does “being happy” mean? What defines happiness and how to measure it?
♀♂ Do you have a favorite curse word? Have you ever used it on someone?
♀♂ What kind of people you would love to be around? And what kind of people you simply can’t stand?
♀♂ If I ask you to go on a vacation right this second, where would you like to go? And why?
♀♂ Name one embarrassing and one proud moment in your life.
♀♂ What do you think about me?
Topics to Discuss and Make Her Smile
While on the phone with a girl, there can be lots of subjects you can talk about. You know that girls love to talk over the phone. So this can be a great opportunity to get to know her and build an impression. Whatever she talks about or anything you say or ask, she will be monitoring that (subconsciously, of course) and will make up her mind about you. So proceed carefully (don’t mean to scare you here).
♀♂ At the end of the conversation… Have a good night and can’t wait to see you tomorrow at work/school.
♀♂ Hey, it’s (your name). I was wondering if you had any plans for the evening? There’s a good movie that I wanted to take you to and it’s only playing for one night.
♀♂ I was planning to go shopping next weekend and I was wondering if you could suggest something.
♀♂ You know after you left from work… funny incident happened…
♀♂ If she watches television… Did you happen to catch (name of a TV show)? What’d you think about it?
♀♂ I remember you telling me that you used to play sports in college. What did you play?
♀♂ I was wondering if you knew how to cook. I have been meaning to learn myself and would love it if you could help me.
♀♂ There’s a great Italian food festival coming to town. Do you like Italian food? I’d love to take you there.
♀♂ If you two are dating… I can’t wait to see you Friday night. Wish today was Friday.
♀♂ I had the most amazing time tonight. What’d you think of the restaurant/movie/concert?
Topics a Girl Will Love to Discuss
To keep someone interested in what you have to say, you don’t need to be talking about things like science, environment, global warming, economy, or other heavy topics. Simple, lighthearted conversations can also keep a person interested. What you need to understand is that in order to strike up a conversation with a stranger or someone you hardly know is that the person in front of you should also be willing to discuss on those topics. Picture this as a two-way street and you’ll know what I’m talking about. If you want to know how to start a conversation with a stranger, then perhaps the questions mentioned below can help.
♀♂ Hey, I had a question for you. What are your plans for the weekend?
♀♂ I was wondering if you’d like to watch this foreign film with me? It’s got great reviews.
♀♂ I found this really great Chinese restaurant down the block. Would you like to accompany me?
♀♂ Wow, that’s a great dog. What’s his/her name?
♀♂ This is the first time I’ve been to this restaurant. Is there anything that I should try?
♀♂ That’s an unusual name. I’ve never heard that one before. What does it mean?
♀♂ Are you from (Name of the city)? No? How long have you been living here for?
♀♂ What do you do for weekends? There’s a really great miniature golf club here. Would you like to go with me?
♀♂ When you bump into one other in the elevator… How was your day today?
♀♂ I remember you were talking about traveling to India once. I’m really fascinated with the country. Can you tell me more about it?
These were some topics to talk over with a girl. Whether it’s a face to face conversation or over the phone/text, these conversation starter questions can really come in handy when you don’t know what to say next. It’s better to have some good conversation starters with girls than to seem boring or dull. Am I right or what?