If you’re caught in a situation where your girlfriend is demanding you to ask her some fun questions, or simply find yourself unable to sweep her off her feet with your dazzling brilliance, then there are some fun and thought provoking questions that can make you more interesting to her.
When you’re in the phase of getting to know each other at the start of a relationship, there are many things that you won’t know about your girlfriend. This can work in your favor, or against you, depending on the way you look at it. You need to make the most of this situation, and get to know her inside out. One of the ways to achieve this, is through constant questioning.
What to Take Care Of
Be random and imaginative in your approach, and forget all conditions of normality. Be warned though, that there is a fine line between being abstract, and being perverted. Tread that line with caution.
Being stuck in the middle of a conversation with nothing to say, is not a very pleasant scenario for most, as they may end up feeling completely undermined and foolish. To avoid facing such an occurrence, and other related relationship issues, you have to do your homework, and you have to do it right. You need to be spontaneous, and not sound like a prerecorded android that has downloaded an extensive list of conversation starters in its head, the night before.
Ask About Her
It goes without saying, that the source of principal happiness for any woman is realized when she talks about herself and this acts as a great conversation starter for any guy wishing to spark a great conversation with a woman.
You can ask something very simple like “What is your worst nightmare?”, or you could adopt a different approach, and ask her some thought provoking questions like “As a child, what did you want to become when you grew up?”
The key to a healthy relationship, is to know each other inside out. Ask her about her siblings, her childhood memories, her fears, things she’s passionate about, her embarrassing moments; the list is endless. Keep in mind, that she wants you to be interested in her thoughts and feelings, but at the same time, not be judgmental about them.
Pass a judgment only on rare occasions, because by doing so, you’re running a very high risk of being faced by an endless barrage of verbal assault, along with an unlimited supply of scorn-filled glances. Here are some suitable examples for you.
~ What is your idea of true love and do you think it can ever be unconditional?
~ What is more important to you, money or happiness, and can they both co-exist?
~ Do you have a strong recollection of certain memories from your childhood from time to time?
~ If you could picture your life forty years from now, what would you see?
Ask About Yourself
You can ask her questions pertinent to you, and your role in her life. Maybe you could ask her what her first impression of you was, or you can conjure up some hypothetical scenarios, and ask her how she would react if you ended up behaving in a certain way, or saying certain things. You could even go ahead and ask her where she sees your relationship heading. But such questions usually result in a very somber and serious tone. Do not ask her if she feels that you have some habits which she wishes to change, as you may not like what you’ll hear subsequently.
~ If your partner ended up cheating on you, what would you do?
~ If we were married and I got my dream job on another continent, would you leave your life behind and accompany me?
~ What are the qualities you want in your partner, and do you feel that I can live up to those expectations?
~ If I were an astronaut and had to leave the planet for a suicidal mission, would you mourn my loss or wait for me indefinitely?
Ask About Her Friends or Family
You could begin by asking her “What is the craziest thing you’ve ever done with your friends?” or you could even ask her who her closest friends are, and what she likes the most about them. Talk about what kind of rapport she wants you and her friends to share, but do not get over inquisitive about her friends, as it will annoy her. Be cautious in your approach, and do not get carried away, or ramble on with question after question, and sound like a game show host.
You could inquire about her family and the family members whom she is closest to. If you are thinking about a long-term relationship with her, then this is an area of her life that you will need to know more about sooner or later, so you may as well start as soon as possible.
~ If your parents got a divorce who would you rather live with?
~ If you could have a relationship with one male friend of yours, who would that be?
~ If you could give up all of your friends for $5 million, would you agree?
~ Which family member of yours would you name your child after?
Place the interesting questions in one of these categories, and think them over in your head before you go ahead and actually ask them. Over a period of time, you’ll know how to ask genuinely intellectual questions that are fun to answer and help you to get to know her better. Here are some examples that you can take guidance from.
~ Which nickname did you hate the most when you were a child?
~ Which is your favorite curse word?
~ If you were to be marooned on an island with one person of your choice, who would it be?
~ Do you pick your nose and rub it on the couch when no one is looking?
~ What’s the worst habit that you feel you have?
~ If you could be anywhere in the world right this instant, where would you be?
~ Can you see dead people?
~ If you could have any superpower you wish, what would it be?
~ Which actor do you think is the most good looking?
~ If that actor and your best friend were hanging over a cliff, and you could save only one of them, who would you save?
~ Would you rather live in the mountains, or by the sea?
~ Have you ever thrown up on somebody else?
~ If you’re having a miserable day and need to vent it out, whom do you call?
You could actively use your imagination and come up with a lot more fun questions to ask your girlfriend. Remember not to cross the line though, and don’t ask things that are just plain juvenile and sadistic.