Girls are difficult to understand, hence wooing a girl may seem like a difficult task. However, if you approach a woman properly and make her feel special, your task becomes a lot easier.
Women are a mystery. You never know what they may approve of and what they might not. However, if you’re head over heels in love with a girl, you would definitely want her to feel the same about you, wouldn’t you? You would want to impress her without being creepy or too pushy. So, what are these effective tips to sweep a girl off her feet?
Every girl and her preferences are different. Something that woos one girl may not work for another. Yet there are some common things most girls love; to watch a mushy romantic movie, going on long drive, being emotionally stimulated, wanting to be listened to and a few other listed below. Get to know what works best for your girl and act likewise. However, the crux of attracting a girl should be natural, subtle and more importantly “sincere”.
Do not try to portray what you are not. This one thing guys must infuse in them. “Stop being what you are not”. By doing this, you are not only fooling the girl you want, but yourself as well. Also, do not boast and keep talking about your achievements and accolades, thinking she will be impressed; she may get bored and feel like escaping from there ASAP. No doubt it is important for you to initiate a conversation, but let her do the talking, ask her questions or make statements and see what she has to say about them. Get her talking and you do the listening. This will only help you know her better, and help you decide whether you want to take it to the next level.
Get a little more innovative and personal
In most cheesy movies, guys bring red flowers and a box of chocolates to woo a girl. But in reality, it takes more than just flowers and chocolates. Not that the above two gifts do not help you attract a girl, they will; however, they are so cliched and old. Avoid the obvious things and get a little more creative and personal. That does not mean you buy her expensive gifts, but pay attention to her tastes and gift her accordingly. Guys always try to go in for fancy and expensive things, but girls feel appreciated if guys acknowledge their small preferences and tastes. Out-of-the-blue a bouquet of flowers and chocolate boxes can work wonders.
Be a gentleman
Pay heed to the pettiest of things like pulling a chair for her, opening the door and letting her walk before you, talking slowly and making her feel as if she is the center of your universe. This will definitely sweep her off her feet. When she introduces you to her friends, be graciously wonderful to them; you never know she might just be impressed. Remember special days like her birthday, and plan a few things on that day to make her feel important. Also, put in extra efforts to remember her likes and dislikes as regards food, music, books, hangout places. And if you can get them up in some conversation someday, she might be pleasantly surprised that you remember things she mentioned in the passing.
Carry your sense of humor along
Another quality that all girls love is a witty yet silly sense of humor. Having a good sense of humor is not just about making a joke, but also about being able to take one. Girls like guys who have the ability to make them laugh, whatever the situation may be. In fact, they may start to miss you, if you are not around them to make them laugh. Remember, do not crack overtly intellectual jokes or make funny statements that are offending, for girls may not find them funny. Keep it simple and silly. The very fact that the girl is laughing at your jokes is a clear indication of, I like you and I am listening to what you are saying. And if the girl happens to frown or just stares back, you know what you have to do, right?
Make her day
Girls love compliments. All those who say they don’t, are clearly lying. Now, compliments can sweep a girl off her feet, only if you say it like you really mean it (even if you don’t). Be careful of not making any statement that would contradict your former compliment, this is what guys usually forget. The compliments could be as ordinary as about her smile, dress and features. If you think of something out of the box, thumbs up! Your compliment should have the power to show sincerity in all that you say. The bottom line is to make her feel special, wanted and cared for.
So, I guess you are well armed with the tips required to attract a girl and hoping you use it to the best of your ability. A relationship is all about compatibility, and being confident about what you want. Remember, if you have to win the heart of a girl you have to show her yours first.