Stop sending those awkward texts to the girl of your dreams. Instead, read this MenWit post and find out how easy it is to send flirty text messages that won’t scare her.
Being suave and attractive through your texts is an art form. Not everyone can boast about nailing it in the first go. Some people need a lot of practice, and unfortunately, have to go through tons of trial and error scenarios.
Tips to Memorize and Follow
- KISS – and we don’t mean literally. When talking about your texts―Keep It Short and Simple! Just two or three sentences are enough, otherwise the poor gal might get bored.
- Another tip is to not overly use abbreviations or she might not even understand what you mean!
- Don’t send messages that suggest any physical behavior or acts. Once you build a rapport or friendship with her, and you think that she too is interested in you (dating and all), you can send some flirty messages.
- It’s a known fact that girls fall for guys who can make them laugh. So, send some funny jokes or have conversations that can make her happy and think about later on as well.
- Choose an appropriate time to send your messages. If she is really busy with homework or is in a class, refrain from texting during those hours.
- Do not flood her with your texts! Do not ever show how much you want her, at least early on, or she might be totally put off.
Sample Text Messages to Send
Send naughty messages and flirtatious jokes, but overall, be a nice guy. Your texts need to give her assurance that you’re not some kind of creep. Let the texts be a medium to communicate this to her.
“Your father must be a gangster… because you are like dynamite.”
“I want to touch your lips, taste your tongue, smell your breath… you know why? Cause I love chocolate!”
“Your company, my American Express. You name the spot.”
“You know what? I think God was showing off when he made you!”
“The length and breadth and height of you,
total up 2 quite a view.
But to taste the true delight of you,
I’ll have 2 take a bite of you.”
“Those beautiful eyes, that incredible body, such a brain, a sexy mouth, nice smile…but that is enough about me, tell me how you are?”
“Just a line…2 keep in touch…
coz u r on my mind so very much…
& even though, I’ve nothing 2 say…
U’ll know…I thought of u 2day…”
“I love all the stars in the sky, but they are nothing compared to the ones in your eyes!”
“Certain people touch your heart in a way that you just can’t stop thinking about them; that is the kind of person you are. So far, yet so near. So simple, yet so desirable.”
“Life is full of beautiful things: soft sunsets, painted rainbows, delicate blossoms, love & laughter, quiet moments & a wonderful someone, like you.”
“God was wise when he did not put a price tag on you, darling. If he did, I won’t be able to afford a friend as precious as you.”
The examples given here are in no way a substitute for face-to face-interaction. So, whether a girl likes you, or agrees to go out with you, depends a lot on how she feels when you are with her. Texting can be a fun way to woo and seduce a girl, but it is how you talk, behave and present yourself in front of her, that will determine your success in dating!