Dating someone for a long time makes you feel as though you know the person well enough. It gives you the scope to assume things and let silence speak for itself. Especially women. This species loves to talk! And they love it even more when someone makes them talk.
Every relationship reaches a point where silence becomes the conversation, where it is easy to gage the other person’s likes, dislikes, routines, and everyday happenings. The frequent texting all through the day makes the topics to talk about even more scarce.
However, meaningful conversations are definitely possible despite the lack of things to talk about. Sometimes, taking a trip down memory lane or visualizing your future can help you connect with one another.
With all the excitement of being together and spending time together, this question usually gets overseen. Just pop this question in at a cute moment to see her blush! This small talk is a great way of brightening the mood, breaking the deafening silence, and reassuring each other.
Sometimes, it is fun to relive old memories. Tell her how you felt when she kissed you for the first time. It could well be your chance to initiate an intimate moment.
Quite clichéd, but works wonders! Describe her three best qualities, to make her feel special. Simple words can make a mundane evening seem fun. This is the best opportunity to rekindle your romance, and to fall in love all over again.
This is a serious question to ask your girlfriend. So, this should be asked only if you are in a serious relationship. Be playful and keep a teasing intonation while asking this question. This can help you know what’s on her mind. If both of you are actually planning to have a future together, then you can settle down on names too!
Some More Topics to Talk About With Your Girlfriend
~ What’s your idea of a romantic date?
~ What was your first impression about me?
~ What is the wildest thing you’ve ever done?
~ How would you define happiness?
~ How would you like to spend your vacations?
~ What is your biggest inspiration?
~ How far would you go to achieve your dreams?
~ What are the things that you would want to do alone?
~ What has been your biggest regret?
~ Where do you see yourself five years down the line?
~ If you could pick one thing to improve about yourself, what would it be?
~ What according to you is the root cause of every problem in a relationship?
~ What is your definition of love?
~ Would you like to settle down in a different city/country/state?
~ Any specific traits you would like to see in your life partner?
~ Whom are you more closer to, your mom or your dad?
~ How would you define your ideal job?
~ What is your definition of emotional infidelity? How would you take it if it happened to us?
Healthy communication is the key to a healthy relationship. Let’s not take our partners for granted. We shut our emotional connections in the hope that the other person would simply understand. This causes a pile up of unsaid feelings and emotions. Thus, it is imperative that there is a constant effort to build a strong bridge of communication, which is based on appreciation and honesty.