Six billion people in the world - 600 girls in your city - 60 girls at your workplace - at least 6 female... hot female friends - but you're still single. Boy, you must be a loner if you want to negate the statistics I just put forth. The truth is, you're single, and thoroughly sick of it, whether or not you are a loner. Either you wait for the sun of Venus to be benevolent enough to hit you with an arrow, or you pull up your socks, awaken the casanova in you, and sign up on a dating website. How about that?
Makes me marvel, earlier, you went social to find a girlfriend. Now, you just go to a social networking website. Funny. But then, it seems dicey to get a girlfriend online - you don't know who you're hitting on, you're clueless about what kind of a girl she is, and the worst? You're absolutely unsure whether it's a girl you're talking to (Can't talk enough about online pranks)!
So, let's just assume you sign up on an authentic dating website, have a catchy dating headline to attract all lassies, and are on a spree to find your soulmate. What next? How to go about finding a girlfriend amongst so many potential female users out there? Ah, sit back, and relax. Allow this article to help you in finding a girlfriend easily.
Finding a Girlfriend Online
So, you've used the conventional methods of finding the girl of your dreams - went to enough number of parties, switched jobs, took help from your mates, and when nothing worked, started looking at each hot chick from a potential point of view. The result? You're single, and reading this article on finding a sure shot solution to getting a girlfriend, be it any way. So, don't waste time any further, and follow what's written below:
Sign Up on a Dating Website
By signing up, I refer to signing up on an authentic website that is dedicated to dating. There are hundred sites on the web which aren't authentic, or let's just say, don't fetch you what you're looking for. You could begin with social networking sites such as Facebook or Orkut, or could sign up on dating websites such as Adultfriendfinder or Match. Learn how to use the tools, and get acquainted by all the basics of the website you've signed up on. This will help you in making the most of the website, and finding your better half all the more quickly. Put in correct information about yourself (don't fake in order to appear cool), and make your profile attractive and subtle at the same time.
Approach the 'Good' Girls
What do you want a girlfriend for? Ahem, I mean, do you want to find your soulmate or are on the website for 'fun' (by fun, you know what am I pointing towards)? Just like you, the girls on the website are looking for a guy they can have 'fun' with, or can expect a long-term relationship with. You need to be a good judge of the girl you're going to approach - make sure that the girl is from your own city so that you have no problem setting up a meeting with her. Moreover, know what you're looking for - approach only the kind of girls you prefer, the characteristics you're looking for, and the age limit you've set. Dating profiles have all information about the user, and you can easily figure out which could be your potential girlfriend.
Ask The Girl Out
Asking a girl out and winning her heart is one of the trickiest situations you will have to deal with, mostly because the 'good' girls out there are waiting for a genuine guy, and not the one who makes constant attempts to be cool. That reminds me of an unknown saying - If you want to be cool, you'll never be cool. Without making any spelling mistake, ask her out for a coffee or lunch, and if you're finding it hard, why not make use of the interests both of you share? If she loves reading Paulo Coelho, you could ask her to accompany you to a book store nearby, or if you both share the passion for music, a CD hunting spree could do the trick. Whatever be it, you know of the fact that she's there on the lookout for a guy too; you just need to be the most decent of all. Perhaps, you need to groom yourself before actually asking a girl out.
With that, the job of finding a girlfriend gets over, and the job of getting her to commit to you begins, and that, my dear friend, is what you'd have to work upon. Her dating profile must've told you enough about her; it's time you implement that all, and become the man she was on the lookout for. And since I'm dishing out advice, here's one last bit - never, never lie to her about you. A harsh truth can be dealt with. A lie is hard to adjust with, once unveiled. Too much preaching? It works in favor of relationships, boy. It certainly does.