Flirting over a text message is the latest trend in the dating world and to tell you, it is here to stay! Here are some tips to flirt with teenage girls over texts.
Okay, you’re smitten by her presence, her fragrance, and her smiles! In the latest move to be closer to her, you got her cell phone number. While you can’t risk calling her every day, you’ve got the cheaper and yet efficient option of sending flirty text messages to her.
How to Flirt with a Girl Over Text
Guys, if you’re around her, trying to gain and give her attention, making her smile and showing deeper signs of friendship, will surely make her send you an sms (text message). This will give you a sign that she is at least aware of your existence (hurray)! If she has your number but she is not sending you messages, then you initiate! Yeah, start by forwarding hilarious jokes and funny quotes and sayings. Don’t send something that she has to necessarily reply. Give her freedom, and yet make your presence felt.
You send her a funny message. May be she is unable to reply due to ‘n’ number of reasons. The moment she replies, don’t behave like the rudest creature who has ever visited this Earth and start with questions like “huh! where were you?” Don’t appear like an attention seeker! Let things flow smoothly. Be humble, and if she expresses sorry for not having replied your messages, chuck it with a smiley [:-)]. Or just say,
hey, (name) it was just to make you laugh 🙂 Neva mind!
Be humble; after all, you’re interested in her.
You must have heard that girls love talking on cell phones. Generally, they carry their ‘cute’ cell phones (yeah, they call many things ‘cute’ – the small puppy, a small baby, a designer purse, small bottle, etc.) with them, almost always. Use this to your advantage. Send simple and crisp messages. Create a conversation. Don’t wait for it to happen. For instance, a simple sms to send to a girl in middle school is:
Him: Hey, (name), had your lunch? 🙂
Her: Nopes, not yet. M heading to the library.
Him: Why not join me in for lunch. M just near the library canteen. Haven’t yet ordered my food. Come and hv somethin. Then, you can study more! Wat say? 🙂
Her: Hey, not a bad idea. Vl be there in 5 … 🙂 c ya…
If you send her simple messages, she will reply faster. Don’t elaborate if it’s not required. That forms the fundamental tip to flirt with girls.
Know Thyself, Know Her Too!
Flirty text messages to send to your girl are a subtle combination of conversation topics. Hence, arm yourself about what are her likes and dislikes. This will help you to initiate a conversation. If you know her likes and dislikes, you will easily learn to flirt with her even through text messages. This is because as the conversation becomes rich, you’ll automatically learn to come up with something or the other by figuring her thoughts.
Don’t underestimate the power of text message symbols. Learn and know all emoticon meanings. Use them to your advantage. These do make a difference to pep up your mood and create an enriching conversation.
What stuff is this? Well, by now you know various things about her. So to engage her in the conversation, you have to be creative. Tell her about something like how you helped your mom to cook. Or how you messed up with the cupcake mom was making at home. Tell her, how you created a big hole in your shirt, while ironing it. You can talk about your pets, animals, and many more things. Girls find many of the things cute! When you let the man within you do the talking, discuss her favorite sports. Meanwhile, when you get a chance, keep using flirty texts to send to hint her that you’re interested in her. Switch your role from being a funny guy to serious man, as per the situation.
Be a Spelling Bee!
No, you don’t have to be a postgraduate in English literature or be aware about all poems of John Keats and P. B. Shelly! You’ve got to be vigilant in not making spelling mistakes and keeping the grammar correct. Yeah, they can matter. You should avoid using too many shortcuts for words. We know, using sms slang and codes are cool and stuff, but nothing can beat the power of appropriate vocabulary and correct spellings. Trust me, some girls do get annoyed by spelling mistakes.
Guys, you have got to understand that you can’t look into her eyes and say what you feel, when you’re text messaging. So in texts, you’ve got to write your feelings and what you’re thinking. You must not be easily predictable. This doesn’t mean that you’ll behave like a mystery boy (if you do, she’ll run away:-P). Let that elusiveness, that mystery element remain in your conversations. Just as a matter of advice, save some of her funniest and interesting personal messages and send her sometimes when she is enjoying a conversation with you! She’ll be surprised that the messages are still saved in your inbox ;-); may be you get an entry to her heart). Subtle hints, you know, they work wonders. Don’t be in a hurry to send her text messages to say I love you. Signing off with best wishes for your next date! ADB … oops … All the Best!:-D